The Big Game

Okay, before you send me nasty messages you should know that I am a huge college football fan. Go Blue!!! (Michigan)

I live in a community where all the talk for the last week has been about the big game. NDSU vs UND. I won’t go into the “bigness” of this game or its history. Most of you already know, and the rest of you don’t care. Hey, I care! I’ll be watching.

What I’m wondering today as the game fast approaches is why don’t those of us who follow Jesus get just as excited about the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords? Why doesn’t the transforming power of God get us talking like this? Why don’t people flock to our churches like they do to the Saturday games? Why can we spend so much money on a game but find it so difficult to offer it to God in the offering plate? Why is it easy to spend a whole day devoted to a football game but we complain when church goes over 10 minutes?

Now, don’t call me a spoiled sport. Let me take some responsibility. Perhaps we in the church haven’t always shared the good news of what God has done in Christ Jesus in such a way as it moved people’s hearts. Maybe our churches tend to bore people more than excite them about what God is doing. I wonder if we haven’t communicated in such a way so as the cause of Christ is one that people feel challenged to give their lives to.

Okay, now I will hear from all my pastor and church friends 🙂

As I reflect during the pregame show, I wonder what would happen if we, churches and Christ followers met halfway tomorrow. What if we who lead worship and share the gospel brought the very power and love of God to our people in a clear and compelling way with a bit of the “big game’s” energy? And what if our “church people” brought a touch of the energy of today’s game, threw at least the same in the plate as was spent today, and then this week demonstrated the same passion in following Jesus as we did in the big game? Frankly, tomorrow could be a cool Sunday!

So, my thoughts for what they are worth. I know, its easy to ask questions. I’ll work on a few answers too. I will also do my best to bring a bit more tomorrow. But first the game. I’m not going to tell you who I’m cheering for, but I will tell you what color I’m wearing. God Blue!!!

And finally, for those of you who don’t get the church thing but who are still reading this. Join us tomorrow at the Lighthouse. No judgement, just a lot of love for Jesus and for one another.

See you at the Lighthouse,



I’ll Give You What I Have

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I read the following passage from Acts 3 in my morning devotions today.

“Peter and John went to the Temple one afternoon to take part in the three o’clock prayer service. 2 As they approached the Temple, a man lame from birth was being carried in. Each day he was put beside the Temple gate, the one called the Beautiful Gate, so he could beg from the people going into the Temple. 3 When he saw Peter and John about to enter, he asked them for some money.

4 Peter and John looked at him intently, and Peter said, “Look at us!” 5 The lame man looked at them eagerly, expecting some money. 6 But Peter said, “I don’t have any silver or gold for you. But I’ll give you what I have. In the name of Jesus Christ the Nazarene, get up and walk!'” NLT

I love Peter’s reply to the man, “I’ll give you what I have.” Of course it is hard to give what we don’t have. But most of us who follow Jesus aren’t willing to give what God has placed inside of us through the power of His Holy Spirit. We don’t trust God enough to step out in faith. We are not self-aware enough to see the very power of God living in us.

God doesn’t expect you to give what you do not have. But God does call you and me to trust Him with what He has given. What do you have?

1. Your experience. God will use what you have been through for His kingdom purpose. Be self-aware of what you have been through and how it might serve others. God will bring opportunities for you to share with others. Just look at Peter. He had seen and experienced the healing power of Jesus and He trusted God to work through him in faith.

2. Your story of dependence upon God’s grace and forgiveness. Everyone is broken. We all have a story. We all are on a spiritual search. God’s grace and love changes hearts. Too often we followers of Jesus are perceived to be judgmental or above others. Its time we be more transparent and let others know that we are where we are because of God’s grace. We hurt and struggle just like everyone else.

3. The power of the Holy Spirit in you. Your presence with those in need brings the very presence of God. Your prayers are filled with power and healing. God can and will speak through your words when spoken in faith and trust in Him.

In our culture its easy to give a few bucks. Now sometimes that may be the appropriate gift. It may be one of the ways God has blessed you to be a blessing to others. But I challenge you as you go through your day today to be more open to the leading of the Holy Spirit. Ask, what do I have to give? Pray for the courage to say in faith, “I’ll give you what I have.” You just may see the power of God at work in unexpected and profound ways.

See you at the Lighthouse,



Why go to church?

I’m writing to those of you who don’t go to church. I was visiting today with someone who confessed his journey is such that the first step back to church is extremely hard. I know his story and I understand. I visited with another person who said I feel judged when I attend church. It breaks my heart. Often Christ followers have become more like the Pharisees in the Bible than they have like Jesus. Jesus loved and accepted all people, unconditionally. That said, our struggles and experiences shape who we are today. When you have never gone, or when you have been away, it can be hard to come to church. So why go to church? There are many reasons. Let me share three.

1. The church is God’s gift to those who are spiritually searching as well as for those who are Christ followers. In church God can reveal Himself and we can learn and grow in our faith. Apart from church our faith begins to take on the teachings of the world. Church re-centers us. Find a church that teaches the Bible because it is the primary way God speaks to us.

2. The church is God’s gift to us as He knows we need each other. I’m going to talk about that tomorrow morning. We have been created for community. We draw encouragement for the journey from each other. We learn from others. We cannot do life on our own. We need each other. Find a church that accepts you for who you are. Then be open to the reality that God may begin to change who you are!

3. Finally, the church is God’s gift to us because God knows we are better people when, we find recovery when, we grow the most when…we serve. The church is a place to give of ourselves, our possessions and our spiritual gifts. Generosity is at the heart of who God is….for God so loved the world that He GAVE His one and only Son. Generosity is at the heart of what it means to be created in God’s image. Find a church not only where your needs will be met, but where you can serve God and others.

If you don’t have a church I invite you to the Lighthouse. We are not perfect. Far from it. I know this for certain because no perfect people are allowed at the Lighthouse. But what I do know is that we are doing our best as broken but passionate followers of Jesus to do what I have shared above.

Worship tomorrow, 10:30 am. 21 9th St S in downtown Fargo.

See you at the Lighthouse,



Come Close

I read these verses this morning in my devotions. They come from Deuteronomy 32:18-19. NLT

“You neglected the Rock who had fathered you;
you forgot the God who had given you birth.

The Lord saw this and drew back,
provoked to anger by his own sons and daughters.”

I was struck by them because I sometimes feel that God draws back from me when I neglect Him or struggle with sin. You too? Be assured God never leaves you or abandons you. But sometimes He may draw back a bit. Part of His amazing grace is the freedom He gives us to either be close to Him or distant. To walk with Him or to go our own way. Today let’s choose to walk with Him. To be close. Pray with me. Father, today I wish to walk with You, to be close to You. Draw close to me. I love you, my Rock and my Redeemer. Amen.

See you at the Lighthouse,



Go Boldly

This morning in my readings I read what was a prophetic word about the future of the church in our country. One thing that struck me was that the church will make a radical turn from being “all about me” to being a mission outpost. People in the church will gather to be equipped and inspired to go out into their daily lives as missionaries. I’m not sure it is true, but it is a powerful vision. So much of our lives tend to be self-centered. Even our church life. Especially our church life. “I’m looking for a church that meets my needs,” we say. “I am church shopping.”

Jesus calls us to lay down our lives and go forth to share God’s love and grace with others. What if we went to a church that best challenged and equipped us to impact the lives of others by loving as Jesus loved and sharing the gospel. As you go about your day today remember that if you are a follower of Jesus, God will bring people into your path with the plan that you will share a word and deed reflecting His love. You may never know the difference it will make in their life.

Now here’s the interesting thing. Our lives are most blessed when we give them away. You want to find a church that meets your needs and helps you grow? Find one that challenges you to give it all away and point others to Jesus. Then you will find your life. Go boldly my friend.

See you at the Lighthouse,



Dear Mom, Andrew and Sarah

Mom, I’ve wanted to write some reflections ever since the day you went to be with Jesus, four weeks ago today. The words haven’t been there until now. I’ve included my son and daughter in these reflections as I hope that they can learn from me…and from you mom.

Mom, you loved your Lord. You lived for Him and longed for us to do the same. You moved to Fargo in the midst of my own struggles and felt right away that perhaps you shouldn’t be here. You thought you complicated things. Truth is, it is always easier to walk through the darkness when you know mom is close by. For many days I didn’t believe God was close by, but I knew you were. Your unconditional love and care helped me move through the darkness into the light. Over the last couple of years you will never know what our phone calls meant to me, or what it meant to me to be able to stop in and say hi. I still see you in the hallway watching me walk down to your apartment. I’ve missed you very much these last four weeks.

Andrew and Sarah, I’ve included you in these reflections. I know you love it when I do such things:) Over these last few years you’ve seen your dad struggle now and then. You’ve seen him in a dark place and spent time worrying and praying for him. In many ways I regret that you have had to see my journey and I am sorry. I know you never thought I was super-dad, but you want to hide some things from your kids. Truth be told, I now am at a stage in my journey and recovery that I am thankful that you have seen my vulnerability. I’m glad you know that I understand what it means to walk through the darkness and to come out on the other side. I want you to know that I get it. That I understand. I didn’t see my mom’s vulnerability until recently. She hid it. Because she did, it was hard for me to talk to her about my own struggles. My prayer is that you will always know that you can talk to your dad.

Yep, you’ve learned over the years that when I share something personal with you kids, I tend to share it with the whole world. So it is today. Truth is, others can learn from us. I’m so proud of you both. You were good to your grandma and it warmed my heart. She was proud of you too. She is bragging to Jesus about the young man and young woman you have become. She rejoiced that you too know Jesus as your savior and friend. And perhaps now, after four weeks of “welcome to heaven” orientation she understands that her kids and grandkids are human beings too. The ground is level before the cross of Christ. We are all sinners in need of forgiveness and redemption. Don’t you ever forget it. You are no better or worse than anyone else. You are a masterpiece of God in need of His grace.

So Mom. Thank you. Thank you for your love and grace. Thank you for adopting four children and giving us every opportunity in the world to become ourselves. Thank you for your unconditional love and for being there when I needed you. Thank you for guiding me in my faith and showing me that “one life, it will soon be past. Only what’s done for Christ will last.”

Say hi to dad. Tell him I look forward to biscuits and gravy at the buffet table in heaven. You are now free of all the worry and things that bound you in this life. Free! You are free indeed.

And to you, Andrew and Sarah. Thank you too for hanging in there with your dad. I wish I could protect you from the struggles that come in life. I know I can’t. All I can do is live today to bring glory to God and to tell you that your old man understands. My arms are big and warm and my love is unconditional and never ending.

Your Loving Son and Devoted Father,



The Spirit of Christmas

I told the Lighthouse on Sunday that I once heard someone say that they were taught by their father that “Christmas is real, its the rest of the year that’s pretend.” I’ve been thinking lately about the “spirit of Christmas.” Its an interesting concept isn’t it. God has a Spirit. Many say that people have a spirit. We are warned of evil spirits. We pray for spirits or angels to protect us. A team has spirit, we say. Or, they lacked spirit. Maybe things have spirits. Visit the ocean. The mountains. A North Dakota prairie sunset. But things like Christmas?

There certainly must be a “spirit of Christmas”, or why else would I be sure that that package under the tree that looks a lot like a vacuum cleaner is something else. What else would explain my pure joy and excitement once again at socks and underwear as my gift from Santa. How else would we put on a smiley face for sister Joan’s family and her 4 nasty, obnoxious, evil and demonic kids invading the house again this year? How else would kids believe in Santa and nag their parents to leave a glass of milk and cookies out, even though they don’t even have a chimney. What else would explain all of this rampant generosity as people push and run over each other on Black Friday to lovingly and graciously buy presents for their dear children. The spirit of Christmas!

There must be a spirit of Christmas, because if so there would be opposing spiritual forces. That’s how it works. And there are. We talk about the “holiday blues” and Season Affective Disorder, depression and addiction triggers: while often forgetting satan and the demonic oppose anything that has to do with Christ Jesus and God’s redeeming grace. And that is what this is about you know. Its about Jesus, Immanuel, God incarnate, here to reveal God’s love for you and me. And here’s the good news. Satan winces. Grinds his teeth. Clenches his fists. For he knows that though he is able to cause distractions, he will loose again this year. Oh ya, his interference matters, these things that throw a monkey wrench in a God redeemed Christmas. They matter. The trimmings and trappings, they often distract us from grace, pure unadulterated grace. But they will not win! God will be victorious, Jesus will come again this Christmas and the spirit of Christmas will live on!

Enjoy it my friends. It doesn’t get more real that this. In another week or two the pretend part will start all over again.

See you at the Lighthouse,